“You will never be a winner if you lose your temper.”

Anon

I think what this is trying to say is having a bad attitude won’t get you anywhere. You would be a winner if you are doing the right thing and not letting anyone get to you even if you want to scream at the person the best thing to do is to keep quiet and control your temper. If you lose your temper nothing good will come from it and you will end up making things worse than they are at the moment. It’s just better to hold your tongue. I remember this one time I got so mad at someone and I lost my temper and they ended up not talking to me for a few days. If I would have just kept my mouth shut that wouldn’t have happened. So controlling your temper is an act of winning.